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17 July 2011 @ 02:58 am
Can't help lovin' that man of mine ...  
Mr Brammers the other night: Hey, do we ever find out if Hermione's parents got their memories back?

Me: Yeah, I think Jo Rowling said in an interview after the book came out that she went to Australia and found them and restored their memories, and that they understood and forgave her.

Him: Oh, that's good.

Me: Yep (turns back to story)

Him: Because when you think about it, she spends all of book seven having essentially wiped herself out of existence. I mean, she's still got Harry and Ron, but she's removed herself from the real world in the most absolute way, and she can't know if she'll ever be able to go back. If she dies, her parents won't even mourn her, they won't even remember her. And then she goes out and protects the boys and helps to win the war, all the time carrying with her this huge existential crisis.

Basically, she's put herself in the same position as Harry, except that she knows her parents. She knows what it was like to grow up with a loving and supportive mother and father and so she knows exactly what she's lost, while Harry just mourns something he was too young to remember. It's really horrible, and amazing at the same time. Sort of makes you think about how brave she is and how serious the war is.

Why are you looking at me like that?

Me: I love you so much!
 
 
 
Leelaleela_cat on July 16th, 2011 05:04 pm (UTC)
Gah. He's wonderful. Why have I not thought of that before? It's utterly brilliant. *blinks*
Leelaleela_cat on July 16th, 2011 05:15 pm (UTC)
BTW, I'm writing a Hermione-centric story (not slash or H/D), and *this* has just filled in the piece that I was missing. I hope Mr Brammers doesn't mind me using a twist on his idea.
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subtlefiresubtlefire on July 16th, 2011 05:05 pm (UTC)
♥ ♥
blamebramptonblamebrampton on July 16th, 2011 05:20 pm (UTC)
He is a gem!
Maggieteas_me on July 16th, 2011 05:11 pm (UTC)
blamebramptonblamebrampton on July 16th, 2011 05:22 pm (UTC)
Keeper!
κάτι τρέχει στα γύφτικα_inbetween_ on July 16th, 2011 05:13 pm (UTC)
Jo'd love him, too, if she read this!!
blamebramptonblamebrampton on July 16th, 2011 05:23 pm (UTC)
I said as much -- any writer would be thrilled and delighted to have someone think so deeply on her work!
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girl; obsessed: hp - owlcomplications_g on July 16th, 2011 05:30 pm (UTC)
Hermione is so amazing, she really carries the trio. ♥ Mr brammers has the right of it!
blamebramptonblamebrampton on July 17th, 2011 02:20 pm (UTC)
He is a deep thinker, my lad!
Bryoneybryoneybrynn on July 16th, 2011 06:03 pm (UTC)
YES Mr. B, YES!!! Cheryl, Tara and I were just talking yesterday about what an incredible character Hermione is and how it sometimes goes downplayed. She is SO HARD CORE about what it takes to win and is so incredibly devoted to Harry and the cause. LOVE HERMIONE.

And love Mr. Be for 1) getting it and 2) engaging in the discussion. Totally equals win. *nods*
blamebramptonblamebrampton on July 17th, 2011 02:23 pm (UTC)
I think that one of the interesting things is that JKR hammers us with some of the parallels in the book, particularly Harry/Neville, but others are really subtle. I knew that Hermione had made a massive sacrifice, but that she had essentially taken on Harry's orphanhood by choice had completely passed me by until Mr B said so. Hermione is amazing!

And yeah, he relies on these moments of brilliance to avoid being smothered for all his lack of housework ;-)
lee: Fleursnegurochka_lee on July 16th, 2011 06:04 pm (UTC)
oh, SMART! Yes! You should keep that one. *nod* ♥♥♥
blamebramptonblamebrampton on July 17th, 2011 02:24 pm (UTC)
I think I have to -- we get each other's jokes, I've learned his name, and the DVDs are irredeemably muddled ... ;-)
★ariannagray on July 16th, 2011 06:15 pm (UTC)
♥!
blamebramptonblamebrampton on July 17th, 2011 02:24 pm (UTC)
He was v surprised at how pleased I was, the silly!
Jocelyn Lavingroolover on July 16th, 2011 06:31 pm (UTC)
Can I have one of him, please?
blamebramptonblamebrampton on July 17th, 2011 02:27 pm (UTC)
There is a short queue, but once I have the Mr Brammers Cloning Project underway, I will add you to the list! He is mostly excellent, but he is wretched at housework 99 days out of 100.
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blamebramptonblamebrampton on July 17th, 2011 02:27 pm (UTC)
I know! That he just sat around and thought about it like that!
skriftligskriftlig on July 16th, 2011 06:55 pm (UTC)
Mr Brammers is wonderful. And Hermione is under-rated.

I saw HP 7.1 last year, but one of the scenes I remember most was the moment Hermione erased her parents' memories of her. I thought they did it really well with the photographs above the fireplace slowly changing. Also thought Emma Watson did a great job showing Hermione quietly devastated, but determined to stick with Harry.
blamebramptonblamebrampton on July 17th, 2011 02:35 pm (UTC)
Yes, it was quietly beautiful and devastating, and I agree that Emma was wonderful in it. I think that I had always known how important her choice was, but hadn't quite grasped the scope of it until he said that. I'd forgotten that their magic can go on after they die, and so she'd be gone forever.
Amanuensis: Everything meansamanuensis1 on July 16th, 2011 08:13 pm (UTC)
So much love! He's wonderful!
blamebramptonblamebrampton on July 17th, 2011 02:35 pm (UTC)
He really is :-)
Nennenenne on July 16th, 2011 08:44 pm (UTC)
Loved the conversation!
blamebramptonblamebrampton on July 17th, 2011 03:01 pm (UTC)
He's a funny man -- some days he is all taciturn and grunty, and other days he is all 'let's talk narratives!' When I was relearning how to walk after I shattered my foot, he would sit down and think up topics we could debate as we walked, so I would end up going far beyond the distances I thought I could, as I was caught up in the discussion :-)
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blamebramptonblamebrampton on July 17th, 2011 03:03 pm (UTC)
Oh worshipping would be awful! Though he really ought to have known the birthday thing was beyond the pale. But on the whole, he is absolutely worth not smothering and burying in the garden!
mrsquizzical: potter mollywobblesmrsquizzical on July 16th, 2011 09:42 pm (UTC)
<33333!
blamebramptonblamebrampton on July 17th, 2011 03:09 pm (UTC)
He's a lovely chap!