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11 July 2010 @ 02:20 am
Quick things  
HAPPY BIRTHDAY al_hazel ! I hope you are having a lovely one!

* Some bastard ran into our car and drove off, which is why we cannot open the drivers' door and why I have no new shelves from Ikea. BOO! I think we will finally sell it since it was used once last month and this would have been its first drive this month.

* I finally picked up the first of the Temeraire books, which deensey  thrust into my hands ages ago -- I foolishly popped onto a (laden) shelf at the time. I am loving it!

* After thinking about it for days after a friend brought the topic up, I have worked out why I like warnings and hate 'trigger alerts'. It's partly because warnings usually focus on big things that aren't part of the average person's everyday existence, including death and sexual violence and so on. So I like them because they warn for things that one can reasonably plan to avoid in an average day, in fanfic as much as in the street. Trigger alerts on the other hand are facing a range of issues so broad as to be basically useless (for example, I often need a little cup of tea when I see someone ploughed down by a car on telly, but not everyone has been run over as often as I have, so I can't sensibly make a fuss that it's a trigger, even if it is). But that isn't actually what makes me cranky about the word (one that should go back to psychology, where it belongs). It's the presumptuousness of it all: 'Oh yes, your writing is SO affecting that the reader is BOUND to need several cups of tea at least if they are confronted by it!'

Which is not totally fair on my part as some people use the term in good faith (though others don't). But 'warning' to me says that the author wants the reader to make an informed choice, while 'trigger' seems overkill, like warnings for nuts on a bag of peanuts. If your fic contains something that you know is liable to upset a significant part of the readership, why not just warn? Tell the reader how they're going to react and they may end up like me, watching half the car accidents on telly and shouting 'What a load of bullshit!' out of sheer perversity.

And yes, I did just watch several hours of the Tour de France out of similar willful bloody-mindedness. Thankfully, Robbie McEwan sustained no further injuries –  I think that's a first.
blamebramptonblamebrampton on July 11th, 2010 11:51 am (UTC)
HA! You would be sitting ON the car, demanding a tour of the city's finest shoe shops!

I watched Merlin earlier and am reading Merlin fic now. Both these things are entirely your fault. Bless you.
george pushdragonpushdragon on July 11th, 2010 12:39 pm (UTC)
I will NEVER ask you to take me to shoe shops. Last time that happened, I came away with a very expensive addiction!

Sleepy, dishevelled Arthur going out to meet his doom whilst still quarrelling with Merlin was pretty much the hottest thing my TV has ever seen. It's still got smoke coming out the edges of the screen.

Also, I blame Mer. (For the Merlin, not the car - I believe she has an alibi too.)

Hope the damage is either not too bad, or bad enough to amount to a handy write-off for insurance purposes.
blamebramptonblamebrampton on July 11th, 2010 12:55 pm (UTC)
You know, we can never actually be in the same room as Bradley James as Bad Things would happen.

And you're the one who caused me to buy a pair of bondage boots.

*Looks up and realises what that looks like to people who do not know us well.*
*Leaves it.*

Alas, the car is dinged enough in an awkward spot to be costly but not fatal. I would not mind losing the beast and just joining the local go-get scheme, all I want are bookshelves!