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28 July 2009 @ 09:21 am
Drive-by am not kidnapped by aliens post  
Brammers: Oh god, apparently five of my friends have invited me to be on Facebook.

Brammers' young friend: OMIGOD! I can't believe you're not on Facebook! You should totally be there!

B: I'm old, dear, the first number in my age is a four.

BYF: You're NOT old. And besides, my mum is in her forties and she's on Facebook.

B: I'm old and I have no children I need to stalk on Facebook. Also, I'll just be over there having a little cry for the next few minutes ...



Back to the work, editing and writing. Slowly catching up!
 
 
 
Nienna: The Moon and the Yew Treeniennas_gift on July 27th, 2009 11:34 pm (UTC)
I'm having similar experiences lately - people emailing me inviting me to be their friend, some of their names I don't even recognize. I'm a hold-out, but I'm going to give in as soon as I find time to set up yet another internet point of entry because it does seem like an easy and relatively painless way to keep in touch with people. But it's amazing how frumpy I've become. I'm suspicious of Twitter and I still haven't figured out what a "phone app" is.
blamebramptonblamebrampton on July 27th, 2009 11:39 pm (UTC)
Hee! (Confession: I do have a Twitter account, but only to keep track of people who are travelling.)

My phone makes calls and sends messages, that's it. I think I need some parts of the day that are unconnected to the web. If Tim Berners-Lee can do it, so can I!

But if you stop holding out, I'll not judge you: it does seem an easy way to stay in touch. I just found out a friend is in London, which explains why I haven't seen him for a while ...
(no subject) - annes_stuff on July 28th, 2009 12:33 pm (UTC) (Expand)
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cassie_blackcassie_black12 on July 27th, 2009 11:34 pm (UTC)
You're definitely not too old. My parents are both in their early sixties, and despite mocking my facebook addiction in the beginning, now have one of their very own.
blamebramptonblamebrampton on July 27th, 2009 11:37 pm (UTC)
TO STALK YOU WITH!!!
Coffeejunkii: hermione are you serious??coffeejunkii on July 27th, 2009 11:35 pm (UTC)
facebook is evil! resist, resist, resist.
blamebramptonblamebrampton on July 27th, 2009 11:37 pm (UTC)
I am resisting! (It's made much easier by the fact I lack the time for my fave timewasting as it is ;-)
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pingridpingrid on July 27th, 2009 11:41 pm (UTC)
You're certainly not too old! But do read their TOS first, they reserve some pretty extensive rights to your stuff, like the right to use any pic you've uploaded and manipulate it first if they like. Which probably isn't a huge deal in practice, but be aware. Also, it used to be that you couldn't actually delete your profile if you wanted to leave - don't know if they've changed that. I hardly ever ever use my facebook account, but YMMV! :)
blamebramptonblamebrampton on July 28th, 2009 01:34 pm (UTC)
That's one of the things that bothers me. The fact that I have a hard time keeping up with the people in my life as it is probably the major factor, though.
oops: Smileoddishly on July 27th, 2009 11:46 pm (UTC)
Well, this young person thinks it'd be pretty awesome if you were on Facebook, and would like to agree that you're not old, either, and also to point out that her mother who is in her fifties has an account. (Even if it is to stalk me with!)
blamebramptonblamebrampton on July 28th, 2009 01:35 pm (UTC)
I need more time to write more stories for more money so I can come and stalk you in person! (And probably hang out with your mum ;-)
suonguyensuonguyen on July 27th, 2009 11:53 pm (UTC)
LOL you should totally get a facebook account! I have on and I must admit the people I've managed to reconnect with is quite awesome! Especially friends you never though you'd hear from again. Plus its so random you can see what people are thinking and such.

I have friends from work who are in their fifties at least and still trolling facebook, I wouldn't worry about seeming stalkerish if I were you.
blamebramptonblamebrampton on July 28th, 2009 01:35 pm (UTC)
I try to avoid people I've lost contact with, though! I was younger, hotter and did more interesting things when I knew them ;-)
Meredythmeredyth_13 on July 27th, 2009 11:54 pm (UTC)
I have multiple 4's, honey. And I refuse to do the facebook thingy, or the myspace thingy, or that twit thingy. My cousin keeps sending me facebook invites - I shun him madly.

It's nothing to do with being old, and everything to do with choosing not to follow a fad for the sake of it. I'm not sure what it is about those forums that I object to (actually, there's a lot of things I do know I object to, but won't go into here), but I do object to them.

Maybe it is about being old after all?

*goes off grumbling into her chin hairs*
blamebramptonblamebrampton on July 28th, 2009 01:36 pm (UTC)
It's about needing more time for the things we already have on! *Holds out in the Mere camp*
Dedicated Escape Artist: LOB facepalmjadzialove on July 27th, 2009 11:57 pm (UTC)
Confession: I have a Facebook. *hangs head in shame*

I was coerced, I swear!

And I don't use it that often. Honest!
blamebramptonblamebrampton on July 28th, 2009 01:38 pm (UTC)
Oh, it's like listening to my young friends explain how they happened to end up stealing street signs after drinking half a bottle of Cointreau ...
bonfoi: squigglebonfoi on July 28th, 2009 12:04 am (UTC)
Don't sweat the Facebook...it's easy to ignore! *grin*
blamebramptonblamebrampton on July 28th, 2009 01:44 pm (UTC)
And in a few weeks, they'll send me another email and I will know what people are doing again!
Loyaulte Me Lie: brand new information!!!shocolate on July 28th, 2009 12:32 am (UTC)
Guess what the second most FAQ is in the Facebook Help??

How Do I Permanently Delete My Account?
blamebramptonblamebrampton on July 28th, 2009 01:44 pm (UTC)
I find that incredibly easy to believe.
maggiemarguerite_26 on July 28th, 2009 12:46 am (UTC)
Facebook? Do. Not. Want.

Why would I want that guy that used to pick his nose in 8th grade saying hey to me? Er? Who are you and why are you excited that we've reconnected? Or god, my first boyfriend. or my first prom date or my first... yeah. Do. Not. Want.

Have moved away from my home town and LOVE the fact that I don't get asked 'I haven't seen you in ages! What's new?' by virtual strangers that expect me to give them actual answers. o.O
Bryoneybryoneybrynn on July 28th, 2009 12:56 am (UTC)
Have moved away from my home town and LOVE the fact that I don't get asked 'I haven't seen you in ages! What's new?' by virtual strangers that expect me to give them actual answers. o.O

I heart you SO HARD! lol
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Bryoneybryoneybrynn on July 28th, 2009 12:55 am (UTC)
Canadians, for some reason, really love Facebook. Like early on, huge numbers of us were on it. I have no idea why. And lots of "old" people are on it. I don't really use it. I can only handle one social networking site at a time. Even twitter is too much for me! lol But I clearly have issues, both emotional and organizational. I'm sure you're savvy enough to figure it out.

BTW, how is your foot and/or shoulder? I'm a horrible friend and can't even remember your injuries. *irons ears ala dobby* I wish you'd come to Canada. I was sad you didn't make it to Azkatraz. Though perhaps it was for the best. I seemed to spend all my time petting EVERYBODY and, and I seem to recall you saying you're more of the firm handshake type! lol
maggiemarguerite_26 on July 28th, 2009 01:32 am (UTC)
OH! I have attempted to adopt Brammers into my family and am using this as an excuse to get her to Canada. :)
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boodiedharawal on July 28th, 2009 12:57 am (UTC)
I've had a facebook for a while, and only just got around to adding my eldest to it. To her shame, I mainly use it to play games on. I like grinding people into the dirt when I play Yahtzee or Scrabble and boasting about it 8-)
blamebramptonblamebrampton on July 28th, 2009 02:08 pm (UTC)
HEH! One of the magazines I worked on had an art department that was utterly addicted to Scrabble on Facebook. The only time they ever came to the subs department was in search of word help ;-)
carnadosacarnadosa on July 28th, 2009 01:28 am (UTC)
Both of my parents got one before me and they're both in their 50s. Until fairly recently, the extent of my dad's computer knowledge was how to turn one on. (It's still pretty limited, thumb drives confound him.)

My mom's friends list is about 4x larger then mine. She's definitely not there to stalk me.
blamebramptonblamebrampton on July 28th, 2009 02:09 pm (UTC)
Parents who are not there for stalking are there for plotting. When the OAP revolution comes creeping down your street, remember that I warned you ;-)
feralcheryl on July 28th, 2009 01:57 am (UTC)
Dude, even I'm on FB.
But I don't have a 4 yet (at least not for another week ;)
blamebramptonblamebrampton on July 28th, 2009 02:11 pm (UTC)
Bloody young people ...

(Which reminds me, is there anything you actually WANT for that birthday? I have some good ideas on what you could get, but am happy to be over-ridden ;-)